Understand a familiar difficulty
Explore why the same conversation, decision or moment can feel so different to each of you.
For all the people already in your life, one relationship at a time
More of the good days,with the people in your life.
Imagine waking up every morning, thinking “these are the good days” about the people in your life and knowing they think that about you too.
Private first. Shared only by choice.
Ten minutes now.A lifetime of better understanding.
Sound familiar?
“Yeah, we’re okay. It could be better.”
“That’s what happens after a while. Things flatline, don’t they?”
“We’re close. We just don’t talk the way we used to.”
“I know they care. We keep missing each other somehow.”
What is You Me Both?
Understand the relationships in your life.
You are not quite the same with a partner as you are with a parent, friend, sibling or colleague. You Me Both helps you improve one relationship at a time. As you use it with more people, you can privately compare your completed relationships and see what changes from one person to another.
See what each person expected
Compare what you assumed with what the other person actually meant, wanted or noticed.
Build understanding across your life
Continue with other people whenever you choose, while every relationship keeps its own private and shared spaces.
See it before you decide
See what You Me Both could reveal.
Maya and Sam are fictional, but the experience you can explore is real. Their report shows how an ordinary frustration becomes easier to understand when both perspectives are finally visible.
- See the expectation neither realised the other was carrying.
- Learn why two well-meant responses kept causing friction.
- Apply one specific change that could make the next conversation easier.
Maya and Sam are fictional. The interactive report is built from the current app.
Explore it here. Scroll inside the phone. Choose whose perspective to see, open one of the six views, then explore Coach YeMBe and Ask YeMBe.
Six connected dimensions
We show what guides you,
what the other person experiences and what happens when both patterns meet.
Each column connects an inner preference with the effect that preference may have on the relationship. Your report keeps each person's pattern visible before showing the shared picture.
Outlook
What you notice first, what you look for and the kind of future you picture.
↓Approach
How you think through a situation, explore possibilities and reach an answer.
↓Commitment
What helps you trust a choice, involve another person and decide to proceed.
↓Presence
How your outlook affects the attention, encouragement or challenge another person receives from you.
Rhythm
The pace at which you adapt, respond and work something out with another person.
Action
How you turn a shared decision into something real, including when you begin and what counts as finished.
You · Me · Both · All
One relationship at a time. As many as matter to you.
Your private space
Make notes, prepare for a conversation and keep anything you are not ready to share private.
What they have shared
Read the perspective they have chosen to share with you, in their own words.
Your shared space
Explore the joined report, agree one change to apply and record what you learn together.
All your relationships
Privately compare selected completed relationships and notice how your responses change with different people. Each relationship remains separate and nobody is ranked.
How do we begin?
Ten minutes each,
completed separately.
Begin with one person
Invite anyone already or newly in your life. When this experience is complete, you can begin another with someone else.
Answer privately
Respond to balanced pairs of everyday preferences. Your individual answers remain private.
Think about this relationship
Answer a few questions about why you chose this person and what you hope the experience might help you understand.
Open the reveal together
You decide whether to see one perspective first or open the comparison together. Shared information appears only when both people are ready.
What is free and what is paid
Complete the experience before you pay.
Begin together
Free
Both people can complete their private questions and see a useful part of the shared result.
- Both people answer privately
- One complete view
- One useful explanation
See everything included
- Invite one person
- Private questions for both people
- A first comparison based on both sets of answers
- One complete view from the report
- One difference between expectation and response
- One explanation grounded in your answers
- No payment required from the person you invite
See the complete report
£4.95 once
Pay once and both people can keep the full comparison and use the continuing support for this relationship.
- The complete report for both people
- Coach YeMBe and Ask YeMBe
- Optional reminders and shared updates
See everything included
- Everything in the free experience
- All six connected views
- Detailed explanations based on both sets of answers
- Practical changes chosen for this relationship
- Coach YeMBe's seven questions
- Ask YeMBe questions whenever you need help
- Private notes and shared updates
- Optional weekly reminders
- Notifications when the other person shares an update
- The £4.95 counts towards lifetime access
Use YMB with other people
£19.95 lifetime
If your first report cost £4.95, you can upgrade for a further £15 and use You Me Both across future relationships.
- Everything included in the complete report
- Future eligible relationships
- Every completed relationship in one private place
See everything included
- Everything included with the £4.95 report
- Begin new eligible relationships without another £4.95 payment
- Invite another person whenever the time feels right
- Keep each relationship separate and private
- Select completed relationships to compare privately
- See what changes from one person to another
- Return to Coach YeMBe and Ask YeMBe for each completed relationship
- One lifetime payment
Compare every benefit
Choose the access that fits what you want to do.
What you receive
FreeBegin together
£4.95One relationship
£19.95Lifetime access
Both people answer privately
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A useful first part of your shared result
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All six connected views
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A detailed explanation based on both sets of answers
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Practical changes chosen for this relationship
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Coach YeMBeSeven questions to help you work through a real situation together
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Ask YeMBeAsk questions at any time. YeMBe uses the completed answers that both people have agreed to share, so each response can address this relationship.“What is one thing I could do differently with Sam today?”
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Private notes and shared updates
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Optional weekly remindersReturn to something you agreed to apply, continue with Coach YeMBe or ask YeMBe a new question.
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Shared update notificationsKnow when the other person adds a note intended for both of you.
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Invitations for other relationshipsBegin with another person whenever the time feels right.
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Available at £4.95
Included
Begin new relationships without another £4.95 payment
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Every completed relationship in one private placeSelect relationships to compare and see what changes from one person to another.
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The £4.95 credit is available after your first paid relationship report and can be used once towards lifetime access.
Coming soon to iPhone and Android
Would you like early access?
Join the early access list and we will email you when You Me Both is ready.
Questions people may have
Before you invite someone.
Is this a compatibility test?
YMB is designed to help two people understand each other. It compares preferences and expectations, then explains patterns that may be affecting the relationship. It leaves decisions about the relationship with the people involved.
Is it therapy?
YMB is a guided reflection experience. Professional support remains the right choice when someone needs diagnosis, treatment or help with a serious relationship difficulty.
Will the other person see my private answers?
Your private responses stay private. You choose what to share. The joined report contains only information intended for both people.
Who can I invite, and can I use it more than once?
You can invite a partner, relative, friend, colleague, neighbour or classmate, including someone newly brought into your life through family, work, study or community. You Me Both works one relationship at a time, and you can use it with as many different people as your access allows.